Your 21-Month-Old Child
Now your child is beginning to feel more like a big kid and will want to “help” you! They will be interested in anything you are doing and can learn from being a part of your day so give them their own playthings in the kitchen or near the laundry and they can be a part of it all. They can also learn to get dressed, wash hands, and brush hair and teeth – all with your help.
Most children at this age can
- Take off their own clothing – unzip, unsnap and smile!
- Run.
- Walk up steps.
- Pretend to feed a doll.
Your child may be ready to
- Wash and dry their own hands.
- Throw a ball overhand.
- Say 20 words and start combining words – now you’ll hear a lot more of what they are thinking – “want blanket!”, “want mama!” etc.
Remember, all children develop at their own rate. So, if your little one isn’t doing all of these things just yet, you’ll likely see them soon. If you’re concerned about your child’s development, talk to your pediatrician at your next well-check, or send an email with your question anytime.
Resources for Parents
American Academy of Pediatrics
Toddler Growth and Development
My Doctor Online
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