{"id":4380,"date":"2023-12-19T07:02:44","date_gmt":"2023-12-19T15:02:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kpthrivingfamilies.org\/pediatricsblog\/?p=4380"},"modified":"2024-02-20T14:57:20","modified_gmt":"2024-02-20T22:57:20","slug":"post-holiday-blues","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kpthrivingfamilies.org\/pediatricsblog\/post-holiday-blues\/","title":{"rendered":"Preventing the Post-holiday Blues"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As a parent, I both love and loathe the end of the calendar year. My family celebrates three birthdays sandwiched between Thanksgiving and Christmas. It is a very busy time of year filled with anticipation, joy, and lots of family time. But any season with lots of celebrations can be hard for kids, it takes them <a href=\"https:\/\/kpthrivingfamilies.org\/pediatricsblog\/why-routines-are-important\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">out of their routines<\/a> and allows them to focus on having fun and celebrating, but when the fun is all done, they can feel let down. Like many families, \u201cpost-holiday blues\u201d hits our family in January thanks to the end of celebrations, shorter days, colder weather, and returning to school after the winter break.<\/p>\n<p>As my kids grow, I\u2019m learning what I can do \u2013 <a href=\"https:\/\/kpthrivingfamilies.org\/pediatricsblog\/7-tips-for-a-healthy-meaningful-holiday-season-3\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">even\u00a0<em>before<\/em>\u00a0the holidays start<\/a> \u2013 to prevent the January downfall. Here are some examples to help\u00a0soften\u00a0kids\u2019 comedown from any celebration.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Stick with routines.<\/strong> Even during vacations or when your family is celebrating, it can help to keep children to their usual routines as much as possible. Sticking to regular wake and sleep times through the winter break for example, can help children get \u201cback in the groove\u201d after the holidays. It also helps to have them continue to do their regular chores.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rethink how you give.<\/strong> Gifting \u201cexperiences\u201d or IOUs helps the excitement continue beyond the celebration day.\u00a0While opening an \u201cIOU\u201d isn\u2019t as exciting as a brand-new toy, having an event to look forward to after the holidays can help prevent that post-holiday \u201ccrash.\u201d<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>An IOU could be a promise to spend an entire afternoon playing games. It could also be a plan to go to the zoo or a fun museum.<\/li>\n<li>Gifts don\u2019t have to be tangible (items) or pricey trips. Memorable family time can be a very precious gift that kids can remember as they grow older much more than a toy they unwrap. You could consider scheduling a family pottery or cooking class.<\/li>\n<li>Wrapping the IOU in a box, including balloons, or a representative trinket can make unwrapping a future experience gift more fun.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Get your boots and coat and go outdoors together!<\/strong> Regardless of the weather, being outdoors with your kids and moving your body boosts moods any time of year.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Re-frame holidays for kids as a time to give, rather than just receive.<\/strong><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Give the gift of your time to others. Volunteering with your kids in the community is completely free, and so rewarding. (It also checks the box above for \u201cmemorable family time\u201d!)<\/li>\n<li>Participate in a holiday toy drive where your kids get to pick out a toy for\u00a0<em>another<\/em>child can help them understand the \u201cjoy of giving\u201d. While my kids would throw fits as a toddler that they didn\u2019t get the toy we were buying, now by school age they are now asking about to this tradition.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Learn about other holidays celebrated by friends or neighbors.<\/strong> There are holidays throughout the year celebrated by many cultures. Consider learning more about these holidays from others in your community who celebrate them.\u00a0Regardless of your family\u2019s religious beliefs, learning about the cultural aspects of these celebrations is a great way to spread joy throughout the year. It also encourages your own kids to learn more about the diverse world they are a part of.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>How do I know if my child has more than the \u201cpost-holiday blues\u201d?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u201cBlues\u201d are a common form of low mood. \u201cThe blues\u201d are usually temporary, lasting a few days up to 2 weeks. Even if their moods are lower, kids experiencing \u201cthe post-holiday blues\u201d can do their daily activities. For example, while it may be hard to get your child to school on the first day after winter break, once they\u2019re there and in class, they get back to normal.<\/p>\n<p>Depression is more intense than the blues and lasts for longer, significantly interfering with relationships, school, and activities.\u00a0 If you have any concerns about depression for your child or yourself at any time of year, please contact your pediatrician.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Holidays with lots of celebrations can be hard for kids, it takes them out of their routines and when the fun is all done, they can feel let down. 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