An eating disorder can wreak havoc on the life of a teen and their family. As a child therapist, I know that talking about eating disorders can bring up feelings of fear, guilt, shame, and blame, for both teens and parents. Eating disorders thrive in secrecy and often get worse over time, so seeking out support early is crucial.<\/p>\n
A teen with an eating disorder (ED) may be preoccupied with food, body shape, and size. They may experience distressing emotions and thought patterns. They may have a distorted image of their body, believing they\u2019re much larger than they actually are.<\/p>\n
Though eating disorders can develop at any time, they most often start in adolescence. They can affect people from all backgrounds, genders, and ages. Up to 5% of the total population has an ED, according to the American Psychiatric Association.<\/a><\/p>\n Teens with an ED will often say there\u2019s no problem, and deny that they\u2019ve changed their eating or exercise patterns. They may wear more baggy clothing items to conceal their changing bodies. Behaviors related to disordered eating may include:<\/p>\n Eating disorders can result in many physical consequences. Teens with an ED often feel cold, fatigued, and dizzy, making daily activities difficult. They may experience malnutrition, poor growth, stress on their hearts, and digestive problems. Some grow more hair on their bodies. Menstruation may stop, and there may be future fertility problems. Vomiting can cause dental decay. And tragically, eating disorders can result in death if not treated.<\/p>\n Research suggests that the development of an eating disorder can be genetic. But there are other factors that contribute. Teens often tell me about the pressures they feel from family, friends, and media to change their appearance, and how their own mental health struggles contribute to having a poor self-image.\u00a0Some tell me that the pandemic has left them feeling isolated, anxious, and depressed. Referrals for mental health care in general, and for care of eating disorders, have skyrocketed since the pandemic began.<\/p>\n Teens seek ways to cope with these strong emotions and feel more in control of their lives.\u00a0Many share that at first, disordered eating behaviors give them a short-term sense of control.\u00a0But ultimately, they lose control, act in ways that are detrimental to their health, and feel worse about themselves. Finding alternative ways to cope with their emotions and feel empowered is vital to recovery.<\/p>\n Parents often feel at a loss when they find out their teens have an eating disorder, or are struggling with their relationship to food and body image. While it\u2019s a complex issue with a lot of factors, you can help have a positive effect in some key ways:<\/p>\n Teenagers are extremely resilient, and I\u2019ve worked with many who\u2019ve successfully recovered from an eating disorder. Seeing them meet the challenges of recovery and learn to love and care for themselves again is why I do this work.<\/p>\n Overcoming an eating disorder is best approached as a team, and the more knowledgeable and supportive people on the team, the better. Pediatricians and therapists are wonderful resources who are here to partner with you to support your teen on their path back to health. Please reach out \u2013 you\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n Resources for Parents:<\/strong><\/p>\n Parent toolkit: ParentToolkit.pdf (nationaleatingdisorders.org)<\/a><\/p>\n Helping a loved one: How to Help a Loved One | National Eating Disorders Association<\/a><\/p>\n Virtual support: Free & Low Cost Support | National Eating Disorders Association<\/a><\/p>\n Warning signs and Symptoms: Eating Disorder Signs & Symptoms | Learn | NEDA (nationaleatingdisorders.org)<\/a><\/p>\n\n
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