{"id":2043,"date":"2019-02-28T06:00:23","date_gmt":"2019-02-28T14:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kpthrivingfamilies.org\/pediatricsblog\/?p=2043"},"modified":"2024-04-25T03:02:10","modified_gmt":"2024-04-25T10:02:10","slug":"your-faqs-about-infant-sleep-answered-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kpthrivingfamilies.org\/pediatricsblog\/your-faqs-about-infant-sleep-answered-part-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Your FAQs about Infant Sleep Answered, Part 2"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Parents often have so many questions about helping babies sleep that they didn\u2019t fit in one post! Here are additional questions I hear the most with answers from me, my fellow pediatricians, and pediatric health educators.<\/p>\n<p><b>When and how do I get our baby on a schedule?&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Wait until your baby is at least 3 to 4 months old. Younger babies\u2019 sleep patterns are variable and you can do more harm than good by trying to follow a rigid schedule.<\/p>\n<p>Babies younger than 3 months tend to sleep for shorter periods of time and they usually wake up because they need to eat.<\/p>\n<p><b>Our baby used to be a great sleeper, but that\u2019s changed. What happened?&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s normal for babies\u2019 sleep patterns to change as they grow and develop. Learning new milestones (rolling over, sitting, pulling to stand, walking) can disturb sleep for a while. Illness, travel, and a parent returning to work can impact a baby\u2019s ability to sleep.<\/p>\n<p>All of these are temporary changes \u2013 your baby will usually settle down into a routine soon.<\/p>\n<p><b>Why does our baby nap during the day, but won\u2019t sleep longer stretches at night?&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Try adjusting your afternoon and evening routines. Some parents find it helpful to:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Start the last afternoon nap a little earlier and try to keep it to less than 2 hours.<\/li>\n<li>Go for a walk outside in the early evening.<\/li>\n<li>\u201cTop off\u201d your baby with a final feeding right before you go to bed, so they\u2019ll be less likely to wake up hungry.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>We have twins, and neither one sleeps! Help!&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Getting twins to sleep \u2013 especially during certain developmental stages \u2013 can be challenging!<br \/>\nMost methods to help babies sleep are the same for twins, but can be more complex for parents to put into place.&nbsp;Here are some tips:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Get both babies on similar feeding and sleeping schedules which is key, advise many parents of twins.<\/li>\n<li>Take turns or shifts getting up with the babies at night.<\/li>\n<li>Try separating twins into different rooms and train them one at a time, if you\u2019re considering <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/kpthrivingfamilies.org\/pediatricsblog\/sleep-training-your-baby-is-it-right-for-your-family\/\" rel=\"noopener\">sleep training<\/a>. You may have better luck this way.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Should we sleep train our baby?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>There are several \u201csleep training methods\u201d to help babies learn to fall asleep on their own. All are safe when done correctly and consistently.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t start&nbsp;trying until your baby is over 4 months old. After this point, sleep training won\u2019t hurt your baby physically or emotionally. Most parents who sleep train their children are glad they did.<\/p>\n<p><b>We tried sleep training and it made things worse. What now?&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you tried sleep training a while ago, your baby may be readier now if they\u2019re bigger, more mature, or in their own crib or room.<\/p>\n<p>Learning to sleep is a process. You didn\u2019t \u201cfail\u201d sleep training. You learned more about what worked, what didn\u2019t, and what you might want to try next.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you or your partner\u2019s needs or schedules have changed, and now you\u2019re ready to try something new.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly, remember that this period of struggling with a baby who won\u2019t sleep is brief. It will soon pass, they\u2019ll learn to sleep \u2013 on their own, the whole night through \u2013 and you\u2019ll soon be a bit less exhausted.<\/p>\n<p>Find more resources for parents:<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/mydoctor.kaiserpermanente.org\/ncal\/home\/ncal\/mdo\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">My Doctor Online<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.babysleep.com\/pediatric-sleep-council\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pediatric Sleep Council<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthychildren.org\/English\/ages-stages\/baby\/sleep\/Pages\/default.aspx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">American Academy of Pediatrics<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Parents often have so many questions about helping babies sleep that they didn\u2019t fit in one post! 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